How to live your life by Jitu Das

Live your life right now, do the things you love right now.Don't live in your dreams, live in reality. If you think deep down, in your mind,what will you find that feels like real & alive ? The only thing you have in your life is "Life". The important thing in the whole universe is that right now you are alive. In the whole world only a few people appreciate that they are alive right now. I am alive and I do appreciate that.My life is my god, it is the whole source of energy for everything I did and am doing and will do.If you calm your mind and think, you will appreciate that you are alive.Well, its not about being alive, its more,much more.Day by day, you are growing older; and life is becoming more than you can possibly imagine.Human intellect is growing every second.Technology is everywhere.Now-a-days kids are more smarter than we were used to be.

Don't ever think or say that you hate your life,you may also think you hate yourself, remember you never hate yourself because everybody love themselves, love their names.May be its your job that you don't like,maybe it your companions whom you don't like. I think everybody love the people who love them back but not everybody love back the people ,who love them.Its the truth. When you love someone and that someone don't love you back, you start to hate that person, its true.

Every life has its own reason.Everybody is important as much you & me. Because everyone is doing something and living.This is how  the world works. Every work has its own value & importance.But when you when you a get a job which is also your hobby, you would love your work, you will be life time satisfied.Because I think, ,the only one way to be truly happy is using your talent. Talent is what you are good at without trying, I mean you do that work spontaneously very good. Some people watch films, some listen music, some make chat, some go outside or play.some people make food, there is so many things that people love to do.A hobby is what you pay for or maybe not for doing something.

World is a place where good & bad things both happens all the time.Everyday you meet people , some people make you feel good, and some make you feel bad, and you always think why did behave with me like that.But you know now that you shouldn't hang out or meet those people.You must spend your time with the people those who love you, share their happiness with you and never make you feel bad.If someone even who is your friend make you feel bad isn't actually a friend at all.The most important fact about a true fiend is that they never ever make your fun or humiliate you.Just because some people doesn't like you doesn't mean you are a bad person. Just belive that there is always some true friends waiting for you.You gotta search for them.Its like You are in search page of google, you gotta search for what you need. So I was talking about having a hobby, It can be anything you enjoy doing. I wouldn't only ask you  What do you love to ? Because you love to do many thing and would love to do much more things. But my question for you is what do you do most of your time in a day or a week. What are the things you are doing and enjoying .For me I read books, watch cinemas and listen music ,I love to chat with my dad and mom. I love to hang with my friends.I watch TV sometime, travelling etc;And more than anything ;I think in my white little brain. I can't stop thinking.But I would love to play guitar,violin, travel all around the world,marry someone who loves me as much I do.Take your time to think and know about what are the things you are doing or what you did that you really enjoyed. More you know about what you are doing and what you are enjoying, more you start to love your life.

We often have to do things that we don't love to do at all.Well its not fair to please yourself only. We must do things for others too even when you don't want to.I heard someone saying that bible says to do for others more than you do for yourself.I think to get the best by doing for somebody is not think about it all after you have help.Everybody wants credit for their works, every creative worker wants to credit for what they have created, when critics give their credit, they love it, when critics don't give any credit, they suffer, But the great writer don't work for credit, they do that because they just love doing it, if they would have thought what will be review of their work they couldn't have done it so amazing.They do what they do for the satisfaction of doing...may be I am writing all these that why if you ask me why ?

Benefits of knowing yourself by Jitu Das

I love life, I enjoy living. But; Who am I ? what is my goal ? how to find my goal ?,what happened before big bang are the questions that motivates me read & learn. I write about Life, I want to know why a mother loves their children so much, and their children when grow up doesn't care about their mother, who is more important for a man, his mother or his wife. Most of the people are unhappy ! Most of the people are not doing what they wanted when they were kids, thats why they are not happy, Paulo Coelho said, wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure. Most of the people on earth are angry because they have no goal, they never tried to know what is their goal, what they are good at.If a person could have his goal, he or she will have satisfaction, this satisfaction will change their life,they will be calm & cool.Life would be like a long ,fun holiday on Earth, I want you to have a good life. 

If people get what they would never be jealous, jealousy is like the rust in the iron, Most of the people on earth is jealous of each other. It makes people sad, behavior becomes rude.Wherever your interest is, there lies your good life.

So,I think finding your goal is all you need to do, because if you find your goal, you will know yourself, its called self realization or  enlightenment. when you have this self realization, all your nagging thoughts will melt away.


You will have constant satisfaction. If you realize your talent, you will know what to do do by yourself. If you want to know your uniqueness, you have to do some study, you need to travel, you need to read biographies of great people, you need to ask yourself what you are good at. 

The Only question which you will erase all your confusion, and that is -- What is that thing you can do all day, without feeling exhausted, bored, tired. 

Thats it, you are born for this work, What is work, work is the only great way to spend your life.

What is life ? Life is that summation of your work or a series of events that happens continuously,.you wonder sometime, what is going on ?

 what is Life. In simple, Life is the best thing you have, though you have never asked for it. 

Life is like a ticket to Disneyland, you enter, you have fun, see different things with the people you love, and when the day about to end, you make sure you have all the fun, then you leave that Disneyland

How a happy family works by JItu Das

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Home is the most beautiful place in the world where we live with our family. There is no place like home,but one question asking myself is that what is home ?I don't know so much , I am writing this post BECAUSE I write about things I love. I love my home and my family and relatives who come to my home. Home is beautiful, peaceful and the most intimate place on earth. For me,

1.Home is there where people you love or the people who care and love you you lives.

2.Home is where we do our breakfast, our lunch.our dinner with our family and sometime with our relatives, friends and other people.

3.home is where we live with the people we love and care.

           In a home  people who lives are   together called as  Family .  Family is a group of  people regardless of the age , gender, personality,look,behavior, who either live together in one home or live separately in other home.  An ideal  family is consist of generally, mother ,father, sons and daughters.

4. Home is a place for human where they live just like  a nest is for a bird,burrow for meerkets,  groundhog , a pond, river, or sea are home for fishes, trees are home for monkeys, grasslands are home for deer, just like rain -forests only occupy only 3% of the world, rain-forests are home for the half of the world's species. And amphibians can live in both water and ground in their life.

                 In a family generally the people are .(1) Mom, dad, son, daughter, (2) Mom, dad, son ( one or more), (3) Mom,dad, son, daughter, uncle, aunt, grandfather, granny, (4) Mom,son, daughter, (5) Mom, son, (6) mom, daughter, (7) father son , daughter, ( 8) father ,son,( 9) father , daughter etc etc just many many combinations are found in different family.

                   The most important thing that makes a family real family is the (1) care for each other,(2) love for each other, (3) support, (4) protection or security (5) companion, ( 6) help( with money money , with work)

Family can be successful if there is care, love, respect and good attitude for each other. Members of the family should listen to each other's problems.

  

 Here are some of the most essential things for a family : 

(1) Care, love, respect and good attitude to each other.

(2) Listening to each other's problems, stories.

(3) Support, inspiration is  also one of the most needed thing every members of a family needs from each other. 

(4) Helping with money or helping solving problems

(5) Encouragement instead of demanding. For example,parents must not demand good grades from their children, because that would make children feel bad and it won't help at all, so  parents must encourage their children to get good grades if they can. Encouragement always works, I mean it gives good result. because encouragement is positive way of asking and demanding is always a negative way.

(6) When any member of the family get sick or depressed, rest of the family must take care of the patient,a family support will help recover the person fast because the person will feel the warmth of the care and love in heart which will care good feelings.

(7) Spending time with family. Holidays, weekends are the best way to spend time.

(8) Having the breakfast,lunch and dinner together, though its not possible for everyone but dinner must be done together if possible. Because if not possible, then you must be missing the good feelings that comes from eating with your whole family.

(9) Going to picnic, long drive, tours with family creates a great bond in a family and good time memories.

(10) Going to relatives home with whole family is one of the good feeling which bods family stronger.

(11) Playing games with your family has many benefits, first of all it creates a great joy in the family and it serves a good as good exercise which reduces the stress of both mind and body.

(12) sharing your thoughts and listening to others feeling is very important .

(13) Listen to older members with respect,Let the older members talk first, then younger should also given chance to state their view points. Older members of a family must not underestimate the younger ones.Everyone is unique in their own way, thus important for a discussion.

(14) Younger member of family is full of ideas especially the smaller ones, they can think beyond the older ones, because they have no restriction ,fear of any religious belief, limiting belief etc.The smaller ones are full of fun, imagination and full of confidence and activity. May be  sleeping  in the afternoon after having lunch is like a punishment  is most of the kids. I used to feel like that ,still many feel like that. Many mother don't let their kids play in the afternoon, because if their kids play , they will get tired and go to sleep early, which will  result no study. From a mother's point of view, that s right, studying is important for a kid, yet that kid needs to play, making new friends via playing,playing creates many friends, some  stay in your life, some leaves, but the memories always remain. I still remember the cricket plays, badminton plays, chess, kabadi, hide and seek, ludu etc. So, lets the kids play. Playing games is one of the great feeling.

 15. In every family, every member is talented in some field. For example, my dad ( deuta in Assamese) is good at managing the food supply, he never left the kitchen empty, but thats not his talent, he is far talented than just food supply. He is a  head-teacher, establisher of a school, where he is the head -master, he also started a social-circle in the name of my grandfather, he was also editor of a magazine called " Panka-Yug" means 'A bad time'.  He   is also a good speaker, thats why he is also a leader, because people understand a good speaker very well, thats why they listen, and people who have listeners are generally called a leader.Eveyone respect him. One thing I got amazed by my dad is that he knows about many real life stories. He knows many people's name. I like when he tells me about his childhood, and how he established a school., for me that was his big hit. I believe that he is satisfied with his career, I can tell it from his confidence. Success always increases confidence. A big success last life long. I am proud of my dad( deuta in assamese).

  

 My mom ( maa in Assamese & Hindi) is very good at directing. She takes care of everyone.She worries for everybody, just now she told me to sleep, cause its10.26 pm already .Well she is a nurse and doing this work for more than 25 years. 

 16. For a successful family health is very important.  Without good health nothing in life feels good. Thats why a good healthy diet must be followed. A good health increases the ability to work , think and all other activity in life. Good health is most wanted for a happy life. Cholesterol is the main reason for many disease such as high-pressure, diabetes, because Cholesterol in the vein and artery ,( through which blood circulates in our body) decreases the diameter of the vein and arteries which increase the speed of the blood passing via them

  Scientific study suggest us not to  take junk food and fast food because it effects health by causing High blood pressure, overweight, over-cholesterol etc. So for healthy family elder member must never bought junk food for them, because junk food causes addiction to it, because  heroine and cocaine is found in the junk food in a recent study. 

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How to make Assamese fried rice by Jitu Das

I wrote this recipe from my personal experience, I love to eat fried rice some time, you may also like it! But you have to know how to fry rice ! I am not a chef ( professional cook) , I love to eat different kind of food everyday, I am an Assamese and we eat three time a day, I wrote in my previous blog that most Assamese people earn money harvesting rice, we make many tipes food from rice. I don’t wanna tell you the secret of making special fried rice!!! , J.K. ( just kidding). Here it goes …..,.. At first take one cup of rice and half of a mug water and put them in the cooker, when it whistles one time turn off the gas. Then wait for the cooker to open by itself , be patient !, and when it opens the rice will be boiled and rice in its shape only bigger, not broken, then its ready to be fried. You take some oil in a pan , cut a onion into small pieces, then turn on the gas, then let the pan become hot, put the onion pieces in the hot ,stire it , then you put the rice in the pan, stire it,put salt , chilly, turmeric powder for the colour. And stire for a while untill its looks like fried. ( it looks golden when it gets fried)
Use the recipie , 100′/. Works. Let me know how you find it. Thank you. Do you want to make it for you , I am the best cook for frying rice , J. K. ,LOL !!!

All about Indian Family by JItu Das

 A family is one of the good things in life. A family is thus most essential for any person. A family is a source of infinite love and care. There is no alternative of a FAMILY. A general family is consist of mother , father and their children. In India the mostly the father earns money. And the mother works at home. Cooking foods, cleaning house and most of all loving and taking care of everyone at home. A mother is the most important and significant member of a family. In India, Mother is also regarded as goddess. There is a saying in Assamese , “Aaer saman hobo kon ?, Noir saman bobo kon?” , it means that ” what else flows like river and who else love like mother”. Thats why the only one source of unconditional love in the world is MOTHER. No one loves more than a mother. I think it is scientifically, socially, psychologically true. A humane mother is at the top of giving parental care to its children. A mother spends her half life taking care of their children. But the sad thing is most of the children never show gratefulness to their mother. And that breaks my heart. A mother who brought up the children, is often sadly neglected by the grown up children, who no longer need her service. I wish the if the grown up children would have shown the mother love , gratefulness and care, the old mother and fathers would not had to live in the community center(Bridha-asram). I hate those who doesn’t love their parents unconditionally.

This neglected behaviour of SONS appears when they get married. The new member of the family suddenly change the course the inter family relationship. The sons now have to give or want to give their time to her wife. This makes sense. But not spending time with parents must have some reasons. For example, the job is far away home, so he can’t live at home anymore. Some people bring their wife or life partner with them. This is how the sons becomes husband. There is a saying, ” absence of sight leads to absence of memory. Thats what usually happens, when for a long time people doesn’t see or meet each they tends to forget. But this doesn’t happen in every family nescesarily. Because I have so many ideal family, where the family bond is strong. Most of us have a family. A family filled with endless love and care, lots of jokes lough and smile. A family which is organised by mom and dad. A family with whom we live our life, share our joys and sorrows. A family is a source of knowledge, culture, language, riligeon . There is many types of Family regarding the work with they are related. For example,A family of politicians where every person is related with Politics. This is very usual just like King’s family. A family where everyone is doctors are seen, A family of actors are very usual., just like that a family of singers and muscian too.A family of teacher is also seen. A Whole family related with sport are also seen.

So, a family becomes famous , when any member of the family or the whole family does glamourous jobs. For example, Being actor,singer, writer, being sportstar, scientist, film director, journalist, being very rich by doing business, social worker, owning a company, being related with politics, or working glamourous jobs . A family may face many problems in life. For example disease of any member, money problem, death of any member, difference in point of view, failure in exam or business, crime by any member of family can pretty much mess up the life of the rest of the family and there is many more.

But when guest comes in a family, the little children find it hilarious. There is belief in Hindu religion guests are regarded as god. A guest may bring happiness to a family. A guest is very much in need in the time of distress of a family. So, a family incomplete without ocassional guests who brings sweets, jokes and lots of laughter with them. I always love when guest comes in our home. We don’t have any guest room, because we treat them as our family and as well as they.

In most family ASSAM, members get togther in tea breakfast, rice breakfast, lunch, evening tea time and dinner. We have two breakfast in the morning, tea breakfast at 7 am and rice breakfast at 9 am. Lunch at afternoon at 2 pm, evening tea time at 6 pm and dinner is done between 9:30 to 10 pm.

In sunday a family spends their time together. Little kids watch tv or play games. In most family sunday is a blessed day. They go for a long drive or go to friend or relative’s house.

Family is has been always the greater part of life. But, not nescessarily every family is good or ideal family. Everyday many wife dies because of family abuse. Its so sad and annoying that everyday we find the news of murder of wife by husband and vice-versa because illegal love relationship or dowry

in newspaper and newschannels.

But what makes a family unique part of human is the unlimited love of mother, always caring,family members who have nothing but good intentions inside their heart.

 Relationship with animals :-

 

  1. An Indian family is not as friendly with dogs. We keep dogs, but its rare. Only one family may keep dogs, the German shepherd dogs. The rich penple keep them for preventing thiefs.

2. We don't kiss or cuddle with animals, but we have respect for animals, specially for cows and elephants. Most people don't like dogs.

3. Cows are used for cultivation. In Assam, cows are respected most, we have festivals like Cow-bihu,where,we bath the the cows in the nearby river,and a new bell is given to the cow. In India cows are regarded as mother,for she give us milk. We indian people do not steal,kill or eat cows. That is very restricted.Cows are also prayed as goddess in some states of India.

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